Members of the swinging community have shared the meaning behind a subtle accessory that signals their lifestyle to others: wearing a black ring on the right hand.
As swinging becomes more accepted in society, many people involved in partner swapping still value privacy. To help find like-minded individuals without drawing public attention, swingers have developed discreet ways to signal their interest. One of the most common symbols is the black ring.
According to The Swinger Symbol website, wearing a black ring—especially one with the “swing” symbol (_/)—is a quiet but clear way of identifying as a swinger. The site explains that the ring represents pride in the lifestyle and a refusal to be judged for it.
“Wearing swinging jewellery sends out a message that you’re interested in connecting with others in the swinging community,” the website states. “It helps people discretely recognise each other without the need for awkward conversations.”
Other symbols, such as pampas grass in the garden or an upside-down pineapple on the front door, have long been known to represent the swinger lifestyle. However, a black ring is seen as a more subtle choice, allowing people to display their identity without attracting unwanted attention.
The practice isn’t limited to rings—some swingers also wear black bracelets, anklets, or necklaces with the swinger symbol. The jewellery acts as a form of non-verbal communication, often sparking quiet conversations in social spaces like bars or restaurants.
However, the signal isn’t foolproof. Black rings are also worn by some members of the asexual community to represent their identity, and others simply wear black jewellery for fashion reasons. As a result, people are advised to approach conversations about the symbol with respect and caution.
