More people are identifying as “graysexual,” a sexuality that sits between asexual and sexual attraction.
Graysexuality is part of the asexual spectrum. Unlike asexual people, who usually feel little or no sexual attraction, graysexual people experience it in a “gray area.” They might feel sexual attraction sometimes or rarely, or feel repulsed by it.
The term “graysexual” reflects this uncertainty. It covers different experiences: some graysexual people are sex-repulsed, some are sex-neutral, and others are sex-positive. This means some may dislike sex, some feel indifferent, and others may enjoy sex in certain situations.
Many graysexual people do not prioritize sexual attraction in romantic relationships. Instead, they show love and affection in non-sexual ways.
Shadeen Francis, a licensed therapist, explains that graysexual people often experience attraction only occasionally or in specific contexts. She says, “My identity—my sexual orientation—exists in the gray.”
Graysexuality is not linked to low sex drive caused by health or lifestyle factors. Some graysexual people may have a high libido sometimes.
This identity also shares some traits with demisexuality, where people feel sexual attraction only after forming a strong emotional bond.
Experts say graysexuality is a valid part of the LGBTQ+ community and helps people better describe their experiences with sexuality.
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