A new study has found that half of women in committed relationships maintain a “backup” partner — someone they could potentially turn to if their current relationship ends.
The research, conducted by an unnamed academic institution, surveyed women in long-term relationships and revealed that many keep in contact with a close friend, ex-partner, or coworker whom they consider a potential romantic option. In many cases, the current partner is unaware of this connection.
According to the study, close male friends were the most common type of backup, followed by former romantic partners and colleagues. While the women surveyed did not indicate a plan to leave their current partners, the presence of a backup figure was often linked to a desire for emotional or romantic security.
Experts say this behavior may reflect natural instincts for stability and reassurance, rather than direct dissatisfaction in a relationship. However, the findings have sparked debate about trust and transparency in modern relationships.
The study did not investigate whether men behave similarly, nor did it explore the impact of backup relationships on overall relationship satisfaction or long-term outcomes.
Reactions online have been mixed. Some social media users see the trend as a realistic safeguard in uncertain times, while others view it as a violation of trust and commitment. Psychologists suggest further research is needed to understand the emotional motivations behind keeping such connections, and how they affect relationship dynamics over time.
